For: Owambe / traditional engagement where you are part of the celebration
Rust is the colour I would take to an owambe before any of the obvious ones. It holds warmth under British light and it does not compete with the family cloth.
For: Evening wedding / traditional engagement / any room with a receiving line
A long kaftan over a matching trouser is the most under-used silhouette available to tall men. Nothing else gives you that much line for that little money.
For: Sunday best / naming ceremony / a christening you are standing up in
White is unforgiving and worth it. Unlined, in a dry cotton, with the trouser cut straight — it is the one thing that makes a Sunday morning look considered rather than dutiful.
For: Owambe / traditional engagement / naming ceremony
The best value in occasion dressing. A well-cut kaftan with restrained embroidery does more for you than an over-worked agbada at three times the money.
For: Aso-ebi where the family standard is a full robe
When the group cloth is a pale lace and the standard is a full robe, the only decisions left are the sleeve drop and the hem. Get those right and you look separate from the group without leaving it.
For: Family aso-ebi where the cloth is hand-woven and chosen for you
Hand-woven indigo aso-oke cut as a plain buba and sokoto. When the family cloth is this good, the tailor's job is to stay out of the way — no embroidery, no shine.
Indicative UK market range: £450–£950 for the making